Hi i'm in a relationship with someone 17 years my junior. We have been together a year and are expecting a baby next year.
Thing is last week he went out and admitted kissing a girl in a club. Said it was to get back at me because he thought i had left him!
As it happens my phone stuffed up and i had no network so he couldnt get in touch.
I was upset but thought well its just a kiss and we all make mistakes so i forgave and tried hard to forget.
That was quickly hampered by text messages to another girl telling her she looked good etc. to which he claimed was an old school friend he bumped into in town at lunch time and was just winding her up.
Now a week on he has been back to the same club. another pic of him and this girl has appeared on his phone and her number has been edited to give a false name.
I had asked him tonight if he saw her and he said no, but the photo is dated today.
could he be genuinely sorry or should i give up on him now before i make myself ill with worry.
Last week i was really hurt, this week im more disappointed cause i wanted to believe him but now i know he lied to me.
If it was all so innocent then why all the lies ?
I dont want to bring a baby up on my own but i dont want to keep worrying and feeling this sick feeling in the pit of my stomach each time he goes out the door.
Of course he tells me he loves me and to stop being silly, but that is just patronising.Maybe he is too young to commit and i foolishly thought otherwise.
i'm so upset, i cant sleep at all.
anyone good or bad please give your opinions.
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babylove21 · 24/01/2008 05:08
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