Hiya, I don't know if I'm being selfish in not letting dh have sex until he has the snip. we are 41 and I deffo do not want any more children but he's a coward and won't go to have an operation that would take 1/2 hour.
What do you all think, we have 3 kids (17,14 and 5) and I have just got my life back and am applying for work outside of the home. I go out with my friends and don't have to think about babysitters as the older lad or girl does it for their pocket money.
Also at the moment my libido seems to have gone and I don't feel like sex at the end of a day with other people's kids. I work hard in what I do although he thinks I drink coffee all day!
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Am I selfish
Mum2Luke · 23/01/2008 15:38
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