I have a close male friend who I have known for years and years. He has recently told me his wife is jealous of me and so does not want us all to meet up. He is happy to see me without her around which probably does not help. It is a long story but basically he has always had a on-off, rollercoaster of a relationship with her. As we were friends he told me all the details, I won't put them here, but as a result I have always been a bit wary of her. Anyway, before they got married, he phoned me a lot to discuss his doubts about marriage. I made the decision that once he got married i would not get involved when he moaned about his wife, and i have kept true to this. However, she read an email from me before they got married saying that I hope he had made the right decision and understandably she is not happy with me. He has not helped matters by defending me. He says that she does not hate me just that she feels she cannot compete with our friendship. I don't know how to react to this really, I have never been in this position and am uncomfortable with it. We are just friends and she certainly has nothing to worry about in that respect but we do have a lot in common. I feel like a real bitch, yet would i feel this way if he was a she?
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yingers74 ·
26/10/2004 13:26
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