But I'm worried about xdp. Worried that he might not be okay, worried that he might be lying to me or manipulating me, just worried really.
We've been through a dodgy on/off sort of patch the last couple of weeks but essentially we are still separated due to his emotional abusiveness (v. occasionally physical) and in this time he has found someone else and has a fling going on with her and I've dated other people. He kept his stuff secret and we had big talks about the state of play and eventually decided last week not to try again (me and him). However, he crumbled a bit and we slept together twice.
We were still talking stuff through and it has been emotionally extremely tense. He was due to phone me on Thurs to confirm plans for the weekend of our son's birthday. He didn't call and then on Friday I got a text saying "sorry I'm running away from everything, I can't cope, I'm going to my dad's. So sorry". He hasn't seen his dad for 3 years and they weren't speaking.
I texted saying I was disappointed but understood that he needed some space. He texted back to say thanks for the support and asked me to check out a song by the Foo Fighters. I did and texted him back to say I was unsure what he meant, etc. and so on.
He texted once on DS2 birthday to ask when it was okay to talk to ds2. I texted back to say I'd call at a good moment. I did, he didn't answer and have heard NOTHING since. So, basically, he missed all of Ds2's b. day which is really not like exdp. I texted once today to ask if he was okay and he hasn't replied.
What do you think?
There is every possibility he is off with new flingette woman having a shagathon but very odd that he made no effort on ds birthday.
Should I worry?
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I know I'm not supposed to stress about 'him'
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