Title says it all really. It's not until you hear how other people react to situations that you realise your own family is odd. This is the scenario I had in mind, happened some 18 years ago.
ILs had the kids at their house and had the travel cot for them. As we left, we told them to leave the cot up until we got back and we would dismantle it.
FIL decided to be clever, and tried to put the cot down ready for when we got back. Of course he couldn't do it, tried to force it and broke it. We weren't able to use it again and it was quite an expensive one.
In keeping with the family way we said nothing to FIL but just fumed about it. We couldn't afford another one so that was that.
Would you have said anything to FIL/ asked him to have it mended/ buy a new one? How would you have approached it?
I know this particular situation won't repeat but this is typical of interactions with other family members and nothing gets resolved.
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Reading MN has made me realise that the way our family deals with situations isn't normal. How would you have dealt with this scenario?
evenhope · 23/09/2007 12:37
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