How do you improve communication between you and your dp?
Things aren't good between me and dp at the mo-i think we need a really good chat about all the important things-instead we are rowing about all the stupid things (started by dp e.g. too much stuff on dds shelves!)
I'm fairly sure it stems back to the fact that dd wasn't planned and we have both had lots to get to terms with but dd is almost 14months now and he is gradually getting worse and regressing in maturity.
Its getting to the point where there are more things i don't like about him than i do, and i just don't know how to make it right again.
There's so much more i could say but dd is asleep on my other arm and its gone dead
I don't want us to split but i can see it heading that way
He seams like he wants to start stupid arguments all the time knowing full well i hate arguing. but today (no idea how it came up) he said he never wanted any more children-he knows i want at least one more and we had talked before we had dd about at least 2. i think he said it just to upset me and now he's away for the night.
what do i do?
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How do you improve communication?
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how21 · 13/09/2007 14:37
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