****FUMING**** Run into OW today ...should I ask her for a 'meeting'

[Riss70]

I am SOOOOO angry - I ran into OW today at work and when it seemed that perhaps I was starting to 'deal' with matters it all came crashing back and I needed everything I had to not smack her across the mouth.
Emailed H and informed him that at that point in time I HATED him and he was a ASS and that grrrrr I almost walked out of work (work in legal would lose job if I did smack her and SHE is not going to get te satisfaction)

Agrh searching for support back up something anything - should I call her or perhaps set up a lunch meeting tomorrow (is that stupid....)

[iliketosleep]

can you not get her outside of work i just like revenge lol

[Riss70]

I feel terrible like a teenager I actually sat in the car in the car park waiting for her to come out but she didn't come in time for me to get home and take DD to dance class AND I admit I often keep an ee out for her at the local shopping areas!!

[beansprout]

Riss, is she still the OW or are you and H working things out? Sorry, this must be very hard for you and NOT what you need when you are at work.

[themoon66]

God almighty! Do you have to work with the woman?

[LieselVentouse]

did she actually speak to you - i would rise above her i know thats easy to say but dont give her the benefit

[Riss70]

No it was a 1 night stand and YeS I have to work with her - worst part smallish community and she is well known as rather easy - I found out from colleagues at work 'so & so up to her old tricks again so I assume you ahve left you husband"

Yes we are trying to work it out - seeing a counsellor - but right now going nucking futs!


And no she did not speak to me.....she was the only person in the office I did not speak too - the b*tch had the hide to look up and smile at me as I walked out ......

[iliketosleep]

yer, id have twated her ive had a OW to contend with before and theres nothing like a bit of fist therapy to sooth those aches but at the same time as you say, you could lose your job so......

just make dhs life a living hell, perhaps mouse trap his bollocks whilst he sleeps [evil grin emoticon] hehehehehe

[Riss70]

I keep thinking about ways of egtting at her but then think perhaps I should subscribe to the old 'keep your friends close and your enimies clsoer' theory.......I DON"T KNOW...... entirely screwed up at present and not sure where, what, why or who!

H must at times suffer and I let him know when I have had to endure crap at work because of it....got propositioned by one of the 'men' who consoled me over my husbands selfishness (mind you the creature was marreid also).....far out it drives me insane at times.... I would quit if I wasn't the primary earner in the family

[LieselVentouse]

it wasnt a relationship then - dont know if that makes it any better - hopefully she feels like a cheap slut

[Riss70]

I hope she does but from what I hear that is not likley it may take her a few years to reflect back and think about her current beahviours that way

The fact that it was't a relationship is ambiguois....it kinda makes it better cause it meant less but if that is the case then he was willing to risk all he had for a cheap one night stand with a girl he claims to have not known the name of and who h claims meant nothing....kinda a double slap across the face ahh he fuc*ed someone else aghh she meant nothing

[LieselVentouse]

yes they are both cheap sluts and its going to take a lot for them to recover from that. youre better than them

[iliketosleep]

it does get easier with time though

[Riss70]

Yeah I beleive it will..... as I said earlier I was kinda starting to deal with things through time and the counsellor and H making a lot of changes (lets see if theya re sustainable however)

And YES that is one of the things that upset me most was of all things I actually thought he was above infidelity depsite the trouble we had been having....I managed to resist despite not having my needs meet (emotional and compansionship)

We had really grown apart when it happened and it was amazing that we were still living together the state the marriage was in - no time together me working days him nights for 7 years - we'd been reduced to hall way sex -you know f*ck you as you pass in the hall way

Generally I do like to think I rise above it...it can be hard as I am mid tier at work and she is suport staff....I keep thinking about getting her fired through feeding information to her superior but then I worry about Karma.......

[fawkeoff]

she is a whore from hell.....and i would have battered the bitch black and bloo.I think its shite that ppl think "it was only a one night thing at least he wasnt having a full blown affair",bollox its just as bad...but i wouldnt even bother contacting her for a meet up...is she really gonna say anything you wanna hear????, just hope one day she gets syphillis and her flange drops off

[iliketosleep]

lmfao

[Riss70]

Love you fawkeoff so do I!!!

[Riss70]

U 2 sleepy

I have her licence plate....hmm and know where she lives and likes to drink (I work in an investigative role.....H is a dumb shit to think that he could get that kinda thing past me considering I spend my days investigating and interogating what a DF**K)

I know I sound terrible but I really need to vent some stuff innappropriate or not it need to get out in a relatively non destructive forum.....such as MN

[iliketosleep]

post an ad in local paper, with adress and license plate with (phone number??) with description, always up for a good time!! crabs come free

[iliketosleep]

or round the office!! thats even better!! yer do that haha jumps up and down in excitment

[iliketosleep]

no, no advertise her on ebay!!!!! then send links to everyone you know omg im gonna stop before i wet myself

[LieselVentouse]

... put prawns in her curtains, cress on her carpet, dial new york speaking clock from her phone - you lot are evil

[iliketosleep]

a potato in her exhaust

[Riss70]

I would love all those things .......love it love it love it Sleepy - hey should I give you her details. (Scary as it is I can give her number and her mothers- creepy huh)

I guess that I should fantasize a little about all I could do...it's not much use advertising locally as many report to have been there and ones that haven't are more selective (grrrr another reason to be pissed at stupid H)

Couldn't sell what's given away for free

I suppose I could add to the rumours at work that fly around about twice a monjth about her weekend escapades but I think at this stage she takes pride in her reputations and see's it as 'men can so I can' kinda immature mentality instead of realising what we have as women is far more precious and it is not conquering for us merely giving it away as there can be no conquering without resistance and in all honesty when do guys say no

It was scary at firsy one guy at work told me to go and get tests done as he had been there too and taken more than he bargined for home which is what got him busted.....gave him a serve and amde an appointment at the Doctor (all clear thankfully - would've Bobbitised the bugger if the tests had have been positive for ANYTHING)

[Riss70]

eggs on the wind screen they dry and will not come off.......

come on more ideas there may beone I can get away with....
LOL love it love it love it

thanks you for helping me smile tonight MN's xx

[iliketosleep]

i think changing the name of the thread to how to get revenge on a lower class slapper whore and then joining in in with all the evil revenge plots will be very theraputic (sp?) and even an evil laugh or too may help, you know the brewhahahaha type