I am feeling so bad at the moment. I had a huge row with dh tonight - in front of my 2 yr-old ds - I feel so lousy because we were screaming and swearing at each other and he was just sitting there watching. I absolutely hate it happening in front of him and it rarely happens like that, but I was so furious that it all just came out and he was suitably 'nasty' back to me. I feel like the lousiest mother, considering ds has also been quite sick the last few days. In a nutshell, I am also coming down with the same thing ds has, so I feel rotten and very tired. DH has been busy with work & went out to dinner with some colleagues last night, while I was at home administering all the medicine and taking of care of ds. It's really getting to me that I do everything for him, I bath him, feed him, change him, put to him to bed, get him up, and do everything that needs to be done. I even play with him as much as I can because dh doesn't seem to be around enough. In the beginning I felt obliged to do all the caretaking because dh didn't want the baby in the first place and because he was the one who was working full-time. Now I feel I'm doing much more than my share - dh still sleeps in, gets to watch the news/sport/football, doesn't do any housework, never ever cooks dinner, doesn't clean up the kitchen and I have to ask him if I want something done. He takes care of the garden and the outside area, but I just feel that I've made a mistake in letting the situation get to this point. What does everyone think, should I be doing everything because I'm a SAHM? He also had the audacity to hint that I don't care about my son, when I absolutely adore him and I think this was just his way of being nasty. He manipulates what I say and doesn't take responsibility for any of the disagreements we have. I really can't stand the sight of him at the moment...
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