What would put you off the most in a man?

[lifesteeth]

If you were single and were ready to start dating again, what would put you off the most from the following examples?

He still lives with his parents
He's never had a serious relationship before
He's in quite a bit of debt
He's overweight and regulary over-eats
He plays computer games alot
He's constantly "Ill"
He only brushes his teeth and has a wash once a day (in a morning)


Lets say this person doesnt have ALL of these things wrong with him but which of these negative points would send you running for the hills?

Do you expect alot of your (potential) partners? what would you look for above all else in a partner?

[GreenandBlackOtter]

constantly ill

[meowmix]

the ill and debt. the combination does not scream man to spend life with - if he had all of them then I would run to the hills!!

[Molesworth]

never had a serious relationship before would ring the biggest alarm bells

or being a tory

[motherinferior]

Never had a serious relationship before, definitely (if he's over, say, 17). I'd be a bit wary of living with parents if over, say, 15.

The debts, sadly, I take as part and parcel of any bloke I take up with.

[motherinferior]

That should be 'living with parents if over 25!'

[lifesteeth]

funnily enough he is a tory too.

[colditz]

The 'ill' and the debt would be guarnteed to have me leaving a false number and moving to Mexico. It screams of immature behavior.

living with his mother wouldn't bother me unless he was actually behaving like a child.

[lemonstartree]

Ill, debt, overweight and overeats, living with parents. all suggest a lack of adult maturity ....run run run

[meowmix]

oh well that'd be the killer for me. Tory. Hmmm.

[Carmenere]

You have posted about this gem before haven't you?

[colditz]

The ill and the debt says to me "I do not deal with my responsibilites, I get myself in up to my neck then can't cope with the fall out so beg off ill"

Not the sort of thing I want round my kids.

[expatinscotland]

-Drinks too much
-'Old fashioned' = chauvinist
-Doesn't like or get on with animals - my grandmother warned me this is a BAD sign and she was right
-Sees sex as totally separate from love, even when you're in a relationship with him
-Has to 'plan' everything
-Workaholic
-Tory

[HEIFER]

Being in debt would be a big no no for me..

I wouldn't want to start off that way.. I need him to be the sensible one!

Living with parents would worry me - but ok if he could cook and can iron!

[KathyMCMLXXII]

The weight but really it's the whole package, isn't it?
Any one of these things can be perfectly innocent or a bad sign, depending on context. Taken together they do not impress

[Anniegetyourgun]

He brushes his teeth and washes EVERY day? There are times I would have been so grateful for that.

[warthog]

lifesteeth, if you are who i think you are, then i seriously don't understand why you're still with him? or have you split up and you're enjoying the fact that no-one else will go out with him?