Hi All
This morning, my other half came downstairs in a foul mood.
So at 6am my 3 year old got in bed with me, and the alarm went off an hour later, my phone wasnt working, so I was talking myself through fixing it, it was now 7.10, i forget the phone for now and go and get dressed and kids up and ready for school and nursery.
Other half comes down at 7.30, whilst we eat breakfast, making packed lunches and so on, comes down and says i was horrible for waking him up in such a fashion, he's a IT guy so used to hearing "it isn't working" bla bla. I said you were meant to be up anyway, it's 7.10am not 2am, he then escalates it, into a huge row, he ends up calling me a stupid woman under his breath, I hear him and i take him to task about it, rather than apologise straightaway, he then tells me "stop talking" and i hit the roof. He's disrespected me in front of the kids and now he's denying me any response. It quickly escalates in a full blown shouting match.
I then take the kids to school, he goes to work, i felt very upset i cried in the car before coming home.
I then get a text, not apologising, but actually defending his position, that he's been rudely awakened by me, even though it was already getting up time and I'd been awake with the 3 year old anyway! Many texts later, he still doesn't get how he's being so unreasonable, he even uses past arguments to verify how much i was in the wrong, he cannot see how calling me stupid and then attempting to silence me, in response to such a stupid situation is so wrong.
I feel like I'm the one in the wrong now, but isn't that part and parcel of adult life, we can't always be woken up nicely! I never am!!! A massive part of me resents him and think he's behaving pretty immaturely.
Help Please??
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michelle2005dolphin · 24/01/2017 12:49
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