Hello.
Having had numerous unsuccessful OLD meets, I'm now 10 weeks in with a guy. Lives 90mins away from me which isn't an issue. See each other at the weekend.
We talk about anything any everything. Texts have died off a little, but we talk for an hour on the phone every day.
Sex is fantastic, we laugh lots and generally get on really well.
Not met families because of the distance but I've met his friends and we've agreed we are exclusive.
Having not got to this stage before - 25 year marriages finished 2 years ago - I'm unsure where we should be, and what the rules are.
Should we be declaring love, making plans plans for a future together, or just taking it one day at a time? Feel I want some sort of commitment - nothing serious at all, just an agreement that ultimately we want a proper relationship. Even if not with each other, I want to know that it is on the cards and not ruled out iykwim.
50 is approaching rapidly - both of us - and I guess I want to know if this has legs, because if it doesn't I'll have to get off this journey and start again.
But is 10 weeks too soon?
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8 weeks in - where should we be?
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Popcornandjam · 21/01/2017 08:34
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