I wonder which one I am...how do you know whether you abuse or are abused?
And what do you lot make of a SO whose default position is to deflect/mirror any emotions you express, i.e. if I say "This hurts me", he says "But THIS hurts ME!", or if I say 'I feel trapped' he says 'I actually feel trapped, too!'.
This also goes for positive emotions; if I say 'I love orange juice', he'll say 'I love orange juice, too' (even if he actually doesn't).
I'm so confused!
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brightnearly · 19/01/2017 23:41
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