I'll spare you all the details, but I have to get out, and I've only got two and a half months to do it. Ideally a month, but that just seems so unrealistic. Leaving at all sounds unrealistic, to be honest.
I have a baby. Any job I get would be cancelled out by childcare. How can I afford to leave? If I move city (which I want to anyway, as I have no family or friends here), I stand a better chance of buying - either with a small mortgage (less than rent), or no mortgage (if I can borrow from my parents - though they are very much of the "you don't leave a marriage" school of thought, so it may be harder to convince them to lend me money, and easier to just crack on with this alone). But all the other expenses will be too much.
How the heck can I look after me and my baby?? And how do I sort it all out in such a short timeframe??
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TheLongRains · 19/01/2017 20:58
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