has anyone got any advice on the above.
This friend of the family has been having an extremely tough time getting any validation from her family. Since she has gone to the police to report the event (some 30 years ago now), they have been lashing out in every direction.
My friend is also overcoming alcohol addiction, spanning some 25 years or so. Whilst trying to support her as much as possible, her family are ringing me to tell me that literally everything she has said is a lie. They have rung my poor old mum, told her I am a liar, they are hounding everyone.
Durning a phone call with the victims sister yesterday, I actually felt my head start to spin. I know that addicts lie, they behave appallingly but all this effort to discredit her is wearing me down. I have a suspicsion she is drinking again. Her kids aren't with her, she says she sees them, family says she doesn't.
Myself and the victim are in phone and face time contact so in reality she could be up to anything and I cant tell being a four hour flight away.
I feel bad for being suspcious about her current behaviour but I fully believe what happened to her as a kid.
She is in the process of bringing charges against the abuser but it seems to be a slow process...then I wonder if she is not telling me the truth about that. Simply said that she would because she thought it was what she ought to do but in actual fact has done nothing?
I feel really drained today. The whole thing is escalating and EVERYONE keeps saying.
I didn't say that. thats a lie. he/she/they are liars
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lolaflores · 18/01/2017 15:11
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