DH has just said this to me after I have told him it's over. I have trie to end things hundreds of times before but he always manages to get me to change my mind by using the children as weapons or saying he'll tell everyone my secrets (past abortion when younger, depression etc..) including my parents. Tonight I told him I would not be having sex with someone who disrespects me, gives me rules to follow, puts me down and won't even have a conversation with me. He has tried it on 4 times since and says everything is down to the fact I won't sleep with him (I won't) when I turned him down again saying it was over (again) he said don't speak to me til you're ready to have sex with me. Am I in the wrong? I have said nothing will change just by having sex we need to sort ourselves out but he just goes in a rage Don't really want answers just needed to get off my chest.
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Don't speak to me until you're ready to have sex with me
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