It was embarrassing.
I went on maternity leave last week and brought my DH to see my class (I'm a teacher) in their amazingly good school production. It had been a mild day and he had got straight in from work and come with me to school.
He smelled really strongly of BO and I was mortified when introducing him to people.
I told him afterwards Abd he apologised but it does piss me off a bit having to be in the awkward position of saying you smell rather than him taking responsibility.
It's somehow really got me down, he doesn't brush his teeth every day, doesn't get his hair tidied up when it starts to go untidy, doesn't iron his work shirts or wash his work trousers. Reminding him to wear deodorant makes me feel like his mother and I don't want that kind of dynamic in our relationship but I also felt really embarrassed sat in the audience with this stinky man.
How do I broach it with him without hurting him too much?
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DH didn't shower before meeting my work mates
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Bumbleclat · 09/12/2016 05:39
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