They are 10, 12 and 15.
I am worried that they will be angry with me if I am the one to call it a day? I am sure that h has no interest in me whatsoever but he is capable of carrying on like this forever.
So I will look like the bad guy and they will resent me?
They are also very attached to the house - as is h.
Am having horrible hallucinations of me being the outcast while they all carry on their family life without me. I am sure h's attitude would be that if I initiate the split, I can bugger off.
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Will my dc blame me for a potential divorce if I initiate the split?
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