OK so honestly accidentally was cleaning the house of a relative and took scrap of paper. Only later was going to throw it out and see its actually a draft of their will. OK I'm no saint I mean it's no shocker they have money but I have a little read. Nothing too surprising as they don't get along with vast majority of their relatives close or otherwise so only about 5 people in it. What upset me was I'm one of 3 and my 2 siblings are in it and I wasn't. Don't get me wrong this sounds like it's about money but it's not the point. None of us are particularly close to this person but I do try and visit and do what I can. I didn't do it for money sake and don't expect to be paid but it hurts to think that I'm not even worth a mention not even oh she gets a plant pot. We all have families so I can't even justify it and say well maybe that's why. I don't even begrudge my siblings getting a share we are not that kind of family they would be so embarrassed to get something if I didn't I know they'd want to share but I wouldn't even want it because if the person didn't feel i deserved it when they were alive I don't want it when they're gone. It's honestly upset me that me and by extension my child are viewed as nothing. I know it's their money they can do what they want I think what stings is your siblings being mentioned BY NAME and you being spat on basically by a dead person!
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