My OH is one of the most loving generous men I have ever met, but he is incredibly socially awkward.
He has a group of friends that I feel aren't really his friends and I'm nervous when he goes out with them because I have visions of him just sitting on his own, getting more and more drunk because he doesn't know what else to do, and being a bit used (2 of them staying at our house as they live far away).
I'm not sure if I'm just projecting my feelings onto him as I'm hyper sensitive to these sorts of things, whereas I genuinely don't think he sees a problem.
At the moment I feel like being brutal and telling him they're not his friends but that makes me as bad as them.
Any ideas? Please?
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user1480794970 · 03/12/2016 20:06
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