I'm sat here in utter disbelief at my husbands behaviour but more frighteningly that he thinks it's ok. We've been married less than a year. I found out he kissed a girl (and clearly liked it) earlier this year. She worked with him.Decided to work through it after promising it was me he wanted and adored etc. Has always been a sulked, storming off if he didn't like what he was hearing etc. Two days ago I found a dating site he was active on. Confronted him and wow did I not expect the reaction. Denial even though his life (including his assignment due dates) were in bkack and white chats. Yesterday he lost it. Racing around the house screaming packing and trying to find his passport to go back to Romania. We then had crying, a cut hand and eventually sleep. Thank god my children have left home. I usually try placate but this time I went to bed and coloured. I'm guessing this is all attention seeking behaviour to deflect from his guilt. I'm just shocked as I don't understand how a rational person could behave like this. Anyone have any experience or advice (other than run for the hills)
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