I've had to nc for this as family and some friends on here, so can't give out to much detail either but don't really have anyone to talk to in rl.
DP and me have had some problems the last 10 months, I thought we were really getting through them, I've had a lot of therapy etc and have rally began to handle my emotions well (so much so I'm doubting our relationship iyswim) it all came to another head on the weekend when I said to DP that we don't talk/communicate at all. Even little things, (I found out he had reversed into someone's car and he never told me I found out through a mutual friend) why wouldn't you mention it? It was only a very slight bump but still. He said I'm over reacting and we do talk, he also says he's not a big talker but things never were like this before. He then told me he used to really, really love me but he now resents me (for things I've done in the past to do with depression/anger issues. (I'm nearly at end of therapy and on antidepressants and my therapist has told him I've done fabulous and it has been hard work but she's helped me get to the right place now) I've told him I don't expect us to be how we was but he needs to forgive me for problems I've caused so we can move on. He said he doesn't know if things can go back to normal I said I'd leave and he said not too, but I'm not happy with how things are at the moment and knowing he resents me makes me think he won't start to move on. Also We are hardly ever intimate, I am normally the one to initiate and I hate being rejected time after time so I just don't bother anymore. We don't kiss or cuddle very often either. I guess I'm just ranting but would love some advice on my situation. I've come along way mentally and emotionally and I'm very proud of myself. But I feel he's taking it away from me and doesn't see how bloody hard I've worked
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ncforthisoneblah · 28/11/2016 19:09
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