To cut a long story short, when me and DP had just started dating there was a period of time where he wasn't treating me particularly well and I was really down about it. During this time I confided in a few of my very closest friends for advice and to talk about my feelings, as I have a history of anxiety/depression and didn't want things to escalate if I kept everything to myself..
These close friends were really supportive and helped me through a tough time, and this was within the first few months of me and DP casually dating.
I really didn't expect me and DP to work things out but somehow we did and I'm happier than ever. But I can't shake off this nagging guilt that I'd spoken about things with my close friends, which probably had not painted the prettiest picture of him as a person :( quite a bit of time has passed since all the drama, but I'm not sure what I should do about how I feel right now.
I didn't confide in my friends to have a moan or complain about him, it was purely for emotional support but I did tell them what my worries were involving DP and the way he had treated me, as I wasn't sure if I was being taken advantage of, or disrespected. I probably went into more detail than necessary and jumped to conclusions at the time, and I now know how I felt wasn't completely accurate. I 'm not sure if I should clear things up with the friends I spoke to, or speak to DP about how I feel? But I don't want to un necessarily drag up things!
Any advice would be really appreciated. x
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brooke040 · 27/11/2016 19:39
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