Just that really, my ExP and I were together for 18 months. He would sneak out in the middle of the night and disappear round to his friends for drinks, he wouldn't come home from work until the day after fresh from a bender. He stopped contributing to any of the bills/rent. And I let this continue and I listened to his stories and his apologies and I let him stay because he had nowhere to go.
2 weeks ago the same happened again and finally, finally I had enough I told him not to come back. He presented at the Council as homeless, as he was in a position to pay rent he got a flat instead of a bedsit. He is full of apologies etc, and then yesterday he went on the missing list again.
I don't want to get back with him, but he plays the "lonely at Christmas, no where to go" and I feel so sorry, and sad that I let him talk me round. I have my son, and I don't want to get back with him, I need to ignore the sob stories, but how?
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MrsRaegan · 27/11/2016 13:46
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