Hi.
Me and exh separated nine months ago. It was not a good marriage for the last few years and was emotionally abusive. I am not proud of the fact that I met someone in the last month which gave me the courage to leave.
Nine months down the line I have been trying to introduce my children to my new partner (same one). They were happy and excited to meet him before first meeting. Exh then started asking lots of questions and it's been made very comfortable for the children having to answer questions so I've stopped it and asked him to stop coming round. My youngest son is now saying he like him lots but doesn't want him in our house anymore as it upsets his daddy. What a horrible position for a kid to be in
I can't live two separate lives though. He doesn't want to be a second dad. He is just apart of my life and I love him. My kids come first in everything but I can't have my ex control my future as well as my part
Am i being unreasonable?
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When did you introduce children to new partner?
Tingatingatale · 24/11/2016 18:40
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