So me & my partner split last Thursday, we'd had a rocky relationship for the last 8 months in which time I fell pregnant, well last week as usual we had one of our arguments and stopped talking, I expected we would simply not talk for 2 days & then resume our relationship again as normal! Well this didn't happen as I expected! I became unwell on the Saturday of last week & tried to call him to come help me as I was really struggling but he ignored my calls and voicemails and when I messaged him, he told me he wasn't interested and to stop messaging or he'd block me!
I got angry and blocked him, because I was I upset at his reaction, I then didn't contact him until Monday evening when I became very emotional I turned up at his house and tried to speak about plans for the baby, well he wouldn't even look at me! He started going mental
It's now been 4 days (longest of my entire life) we have not spoke one word to each other, he's out enjoying life whilst I'm stuck in, pregnant and crying over every thing around me!
I literally feel like I'm dying from heartbreak I am so devastated, I actually feel suicidal from being cut out of someone's life so suddenly.....I love him so much and I miss him so desperately but he won't speak to me, he's cut me off! He hates me! And I don't know what I've done wrong! We've fallen out over much bigger things yet always made up.
Do you think he met someone else and was waiting for the right time to break it all off and used the argument as the perfect excuse??
Only 4 days before, we fell out over something stupid and he was ringing me begging me to take him back because he wanted to be there for me and the baby.....how can he change his feelings so quickly for me??
I feel sick to my stomach when I think of him with someone else! I just want him to turn up and hug me......please help me, I don't know what to do!
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Notmyweek · 24/11/2016 18:10
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