Dp started his own buisness a couple of years ago. It's supposed to 'ours' but it's his. I gave up work to look after the kids so he could focus on it.
It's growing well now and he has a several staff and due to start work there in the new year when kids are finally in school.
Things have been tough as im never out of the house or have a break while he is never in it - due to work. But TBH he tells lies sometimes so I can never be 100% certain he is where he says he is.
The staff Xmas do popped up a month or so back and he mentioned where it was. Its an event night, one ive always wanted to go and actually asked dp if he fancied it, not just your average meal out and drinks (which I've always been invited to) it's costing the best part of £900.
Apparently though partners are not invited. Which is a bit strange as I'm ever the only Partner that goes. So basically it's just 'me' that can't go. I was really gutted when told, told him I was. Apparently there is another works do that i can go on for employees boyfriends and girlfriends, That's a meal in a cheap restaurant. One of the reasons was the buisness couldn't afford it if every one took their partners. (Who of which have never come before)
Today dp took one of his family members to work as he doing some work experience for three days (possibiliy more) and they came here for dinner afterwards. It came up, by accident, that he was now going to the big Xmas do now too - as apparently he 'worked' there now.
And I've just lost my shit.
Dp is saying I'm pathetic and it's just a works do and now he won't go. Which is bullshit.
But I feel it's just another example of him taking the piss and not appreciating me. We had words over the weekend about him not helping with the kids when they are up all night and the tiredness was making me ill.
I gone right overboard and said I've had enough and I want him to move out. He said 'fine - I'll go and I don't come back and it will be all YOUR fault'
It's sounds petty that I'm so upset over this I know But it just feels like a slap in the face and a clear indication where I am in his life and the fact he knew I really wanted to go somewhere and said no to me yet was still inviting others
He has lots of time to himself, he has been abroad twice this year on his own.
What do you think ?
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Can I ask for your perspective regarding dp and works do.
Thelastfeed12 · 21/11/2016 23:57
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