Hi all...right so I’m here because I need some advice... I have been dating this guy for 4 months now, we are both single parents. He is very caring, kind respects me and gives me a lot of time, we speak at least 4 times a day, and mind you I don't call, he does. I hardly make one or two calls or call him back if I’ve missed his calls. So we are always in communication which he knows from day one is very important to me.
However, this weekend he went away on a holiday for 2 weeks mon and dad after 12 years. We have hardly spoken. He called me yesterday for 5 mins and that was it.
I feel abandoned and I didn't expect him to disappear from the face of earth. It only takes a minute to text and im not asking for constant updates. I thought of texting him about how I feel but I’m not needy and I don't want to ruin his holiday - this time apart could be healthy for both of us, but I can’t help but feel abandoned and maybe he is losing interest in us?! Am I being paranoid?! I don’t know what’s going on to be honest. Should I address it or just let it be and see how things go?!
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Am i over thinking things?
tink1234 · 16/11/2016 13:34
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