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Should not have gotten married

(3 Posts)
Coleen82 Tue 08-Nov-16 22:43:10

I've only been married 3 months together for 6 years and have 2 daughters but not I feel like marrying him was the biggest mistake I've made. My friends and family don't like him so I don't feel like I can talk to them about how I feel. He has nevery been brilliant at house hold things or child care but these last 3 months he doesn't even try I ask for help he says no. And I've also started feeling belittled and like what I want doesn't matter. I have also been diagnosed with drepession and anxiety and am waiting for a heart operation but he doesn't seem to care.

comoneileen Tue 08-Nov-16 22:52:11

A selfish prat by the sound of it.
Have you talked to him about how he makes you feel?

PoundingTheStreets Tue 08-Nov-16 22:54:29

Your friends and family don't like him for a reason; all those you've just given! I ask for help and he says no - huge red flag there. Won't help with childcare or housework = lazy twat at best, manipulative abuser at worst.

If you left him and told them why, I bet they'd be really relieved and supportive (even if they couldn't resist a few 'I-told-you-sos'). I'd also hazard a guess that your depression and anxiety would improve significantly once you're out of this relationship.

Question is, what do you want to do about it?

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