It's just something I don't do - if someone has upset me I often tell them but then move on.
My sister on the other hand is someone who can "take the huff" easily - she has a list of people who have offended her in some way or other and she just gives them the silent treatment & normally the friendship ends.
This time it's me who has apparently offended her. She likes to go to the cinema & check in on FB whenever she does. The other week she went 11 times in a week and I sent her a text saying jokingly "11 movies in one week! have you seen any fresh air this week?" And this set her off - she is an adult who can decide herself what she does with her life & if I don't like it I should unfriend her on fb! We normally have text chat at least once every couple of days (we live in different countries & this is how we communicate) and now I'm being given the silent treatment! I tried to ignore it & just text her as normal - she will either ignore the text or send a one word answer.
Any ideas what to do with people who are huffy? I apologised for the apparent offence. Do I just keep texting her or do I mention that u know she's in a huff?
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Jecan · 07/11/2016 19:19
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