Pretty sure my situation isn't normal. Husband works full time, 5,5 days. Leaves at 7 could be back by 4.30 but rarely is. I work 3 days, leave at 7, back by 6 - 6.30.
Ds wakes at 5. I bf for a bit, then go and get his milk and cups of tea while h entertains him on our bed.
H might take ds downstairs while I get ready, brings him back up if he poops.
I do everything else during the day. Inc drop off at dm or Mil for childcare. Mil has him home for me on her days.
H helps at bathtime . I put to bed. I then wash up, cook, makes,lunches etc.
I bf back to sleep in the night.
Weekends are similar.
H has had ds on his own a handful of times ever, and has never taken him anywhere alone. He's had him for a nap once when I had to go to hospital.
I'm pregnant with the second and thinking I may be better off alone.
Please, don't ask why I had children with him. It's done now and I'm pleased I've got them. I'm just about past it.
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What does your oh do with the children?
Sparrowlegs248 · 05/11/2016 10:47
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