I am fully prepared to be slated. I have posted many times on Mumsnet but i have changed my username for this thread.
I had an affair with a married man. We met in secret for approx 7 months before his wife found out about 4 months ago. I fully expected him to plead forgiveness from her & try to re-build but he stated quite clearly (as he always had done)that the marriage had been long dead. So, he left her - for me.
We have been extremely happy in the past few months - lots of ups and downs but we have ridden the storm until his stbxw contacted me in the past 2 weeks.
I know my part in all of this but it shook me the core. I have told him he should return to his family. The guilt for her is crushing me.
Really my question is - does it ever work out with the OW ?
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Affairs/future/does it ever work out ?
aazaazo09 · 02/11/2016 18:46
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