So DH has a condition and has had it for 5 years during that time I've taken on two jobs as he had to stop working and he is a SAHD (our youngest is 8).
I'm very confused as to whether to continue this relationship anymore as he is bloody horrible a lot of the time. He had a temper before he got ill too but don't know if I'm just getting wise to it all.
For his condition he has a lot of procedures which involve day surgery tomorrow he is having quite a big one - I have taken time off work to take over while he is incapacitated.
He's just an arse tbh I can't even be bothered to write down what he does as I already know what you will say I'm just muddled up because idk if it's his illness or if he's just an idiot, I've never been in another relationship but i do know that his parents were very volatile.
Basically before anything "big" happens such as his op tomorrow he will deliberately cause a row so he's just been screaming at me telling me not to act hard done to because I'd done a few loads of washing today and I just sit there like wtf where did this come from and he will just rant about stupid shit such as him having a blocked ear for two days and I don't give a crap we've all had colds my youngest has an absolutely terrible one right now.
He's ranting at me now over towels - we need new ones and he's saying he's not taking our shitty ones to hospital he spends a lot of money on his own hobby every week (averaging 50.00) if I moan I get shouted down by people who say it's his only enjoyment since getting ill, yet he can't understand that if he didn't take 50.00 every week he could have as many bloody new towels as he wants.
I just don't know anymore he's done this as he knows I will panic tonight and tomorrow (he's having a GA) and he's telling me he will tell the nurses he doesn't want to see me so I will end up at some point tonight apologising before he goes.
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midnightanna · 02/11/2016 16:52
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