In July this year I found out that the company my DH & I owned was in serious financial trouble. It was my DH's company originally & I joined a couple of years ago.
Basically he had run it into the ground, ran up debts & not told me anything of this (was v financially controlling) over a period of 2 years.
Result was, we've had to beg & borrow money from family, move out of our lovely home & life is v stressful at the moment.
I am now in a position where I am depressed (have had depression twice before and have been on tablets for years), angry at my DH for letting this situation happen and stressed to high heaven trying to keep going at work (full time), dealing with the kids (one of whom has just started in reception & is acting out massively) and worrying about money & our future all the time.
DH is now pissed off because I have become 'unresponsive', 'distant' etc. I don't believe I am in the right mental state to be making big life decisions at the moment - & couldn't afford to leave him even if I wanted to. I just want to 'put us on hold' whilst I deal with my mental health but he is constantly trying to kiss, cuddle, spend 'us time' to get us back on track.
I told him last night that I don't have the capacity to work on our relationship at the moment because daily life is exhausting me & I can't see any way out of how I'm feeling at the moment.
I just feel desperate, sad, lonely and entirely hopeless.
Anyone with any words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.
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Depressed, relationship failing & can't see a way forward
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TiredMumToTwo · 31/10/2016 14:24
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