Split with ex six months ago after he cheated on me. I've pulled my life together and realised I can have happy future without him.
I want us to be separately happy and when necessary make parenting decisions together.
However. ..He seems intent on being unpleasant. Taking pleasure in revealing details of his affair, refusing to reply to simple requests eg "do you have DC wellies he needs them".
He's downright rude when he does text. But interestingly full of remorse and concern in real life.
I find it disturbing that he switches masks and personas so easily. Makes me doubt all of our years together.
I suspect his partner (the OW) monitors his texts and it suits him to give the impression of "my awful and demanding ex, poor me, that's why I cheated" and to convince her I'm not a threat to their relationship.
It's just odd and unnecessary and is making me anxious about future cos parenting. How do I deal with this? Has anyone been taken aback by ex changing so fundamentally?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Why so unpleasant? ?
8 replies
RolfsBabyGrand · 26/10/2016 19:22
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.