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Have I came on too strong?

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Louisajohnson224 · 23/10/2016 20:24

Started dating a new guy.
Went on 4 dates,we haven't had sex yet.
The other night I invited him into mine and we kissed and cuddled etc but then he left as he had work next day.
An hour ago we were texting and I showed him a pic of me years ago with blonde hair and he replied "Oooh kinky ha ha"
So I responded " don't need to be blonde to be kinky ;-)"
Then anyway it got on to me saying "could of showed you my kinky side the other night but you dashed off"
He responded " well you owe me then ;-)"
So I said " it's finding a opportunity"
Then he said " don't worry man,it will happen"

I'm worried I've scared him off by coming on too strong..

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crayfish · 23/10/2016 20:32

I don't think you have come on too strong just let him know that you are up for it I suppose. Bit odd that he called you 'man' (doesn't seems very sexy or romantic) but maybe that's just how he talks?

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ALaughAMinute · 23/10/2016 20:34

You're overthinking it. He sounds keen. Enjoy!

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Louisajohnson224 · 23/10/2016 20:36

Yeah he is Geordie and pretty much says man in every single sentence ha ha.
I think I just wanted him to know that I want it to head down that road as up until date 3 he hadn't kissed me..it was only after I said you can kiss me,that's when he started.
He seems like a really decent guy tbh

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Louisajohnson224 · 23/10/2016 20:36

I'm a massive massive over thinker

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JoJoSM2 · 23/10/2016 20:41

A normal guy who likes you, wouldn't get scared off. However, I'd probably take it easy as he doesn't seem to want to go at the same pace. Just don't get paranoid and talk to him about it.