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How to be grey

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user1477031025 · 21/10/2016 07:29

For reasons I don't want to go into I have to stay in an abusive relationship just a little while longer - until I have everything sorted for me to make a safe exit.

I remember reading something here once about someone in similar circumstances with a narc P who received advice to be grey; uninteresting to her P so that he didn't get the response he wanted from her. I can't find the thread. Can anyone advise on how to do this?

It's a short term strategy to help me cope and avoid conflict until my plan is all in place. Thank you

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NewStartNow · 21/10/2016 08:31

It's called gray rock, from an American originally. Can't link
but Google should find it. X

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