I have name changed.
I haven't had a conversation with my husband (of 16 years) in months.
He rarely talks to me, except to ask a question or answer a question.
He is a wonderful dad who has long conversations with our young teen.
In the last three years, we have had sex four times - always instigated by me.
He never hugs me or touches me or talks to me.
In the meantime, I have fallen in love with a male friend. Over the last few months, we have had a kiss but nothing more.
Obviously, I can't go on like this.
I am very unhappy in my marriage.
It doesn't help that he snores like a warthog all night and keeps me awake -I'm sleeping (or not) next to a man who doesn't have any interest in me.
Leaving him would break our child's heart and shock our families, but the thought of being trapped in a marriage with him for the rest of my life is unbearable.
I've tried to talk to him. It makes no difference.
I have no idea what to do...
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puppyfriend · 16/10/2016 19:14
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