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I've left again

(54 Posts)
Aveiam Fri 14-Oct-16 21:30:14

I have left him, he hurt me badly and I have come to a hotel and I just feel sick, I'm scared and alone, please can someone talk to me

BantyCustards Fri 14-Oct-16 21:32:18

Hi there.

I'm sorry you're going through this.

Have you had medical attention? Called the police?

AnyFucker Fri 14-Oct-16 21:34:25

How has he hurt you ?

Stay safe. Contact a friend or your family and let someone (not him) look after you

theansweris42 Fri 14-Oct-16 21:34:27

Hello aveiam are you physically OK?
You're not alone, people are here for you.
Is the hotel OK? Are you comfortable there for now?

Costacoffeeplease Fri 14-Oct-16 21:40:38

Are you ok? Do you need medical attention?

Daffodils8 Fri 14-Oct-16 21:46:55

Thinking about you. We are here flowers

ALaughAMinute Fri 14-Oct-16 22:10:37

Hope you're okay OP.

We're here if you want to talk to us.

NorksAreMessy Fri 14-Oct-16 22:11:44

Keep talking, we will help you

maras2 Fri 14-Oct-16 22:11:54

I'm here until 2 o'clock.Keep posting.You're never alone with Mumsnet.

BifsWif Fri 14-Oct-16 22:12:27

We're all here.

Are you physically hurt? Are you safe?

Mishaps Fri 14-Oct-16 22:22:02

Phone the Samaritans (116 123) - they are not just there for the suicidal, but for anyone in a jam of some sort or distressed. They will listen and will know where local refuges are if we are talking physical rather than emotional hurt. Don't sit there all on your own - speak to them - you need a live person to listen.

Daffodils8 Sat 15-Oct-16 14:55:46

Thinking about you - hope you're okay x

IreallyKNOWiamright Sat 15-Oct-16 15:07:44

Hope you are ok op. flowers

ImperialBlether Sat 15-Oct-16 15:25:05

OP, I've just read through your past threads and I'm very worried about you. Please can you tell us you're okay?

Aveiam Sat 15-Oct-16 20:29:59

I had to come back. Thank you for messages

Aveiam Sat 15-Oct-16 20:42:16

He's gone out now

HometoMandalay Sat 15-Oct-16 22:05:18

Op are you on your own? Are you okay?

Aveiam Sun 16-Oct-16 17:38:37

No he's at work now

Aveiam Sun 16-Oct-16 21:17:10

I don't know how to cope with this anymore

ThatsNotMyToddler Sun 16-Oct-16 21:35:08

What are you thinking OP?
Do you want to leave permanently?
People on here can help you but only you can make the decision.

Aveiam Sun 16-Oct-16 21:36:56

I want to leave because if I don't I know he's going to end up killing me

BeachysSandyFlipFlops Sun 16-Oct-16 21:51:12

Would you go to the police?

Aveiam Sun 16-Oct-16 21:52:50

I don't know where to start and I've been before about him he's been arrested before

BeachysSandyFlipFlops Sun 16-Oct-16 22:02:15

When is he at work until? Can you go the police tonight and try to get into a refuge?

ThatsNotMyToddler Sun 16-Oct-16 22:32:09

If he's been arrested before do you have a specific number to call the police on? Or your local council may have a domestic violence number you can call. But be careful if you're doing Internet searches that you do private browsing so he can't see what you've been looking at. Or ring Women's Aid on 0808 2000 247.

While he's at work try to get a bag together with all your paperwork, passport etc and maybe a couple of changes of clothes so you're ready to go. Make sure you have somewhere safe to keep it though - you don't want him finding it.

Do you have friends or family nearby who would take you in if you left?

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