Hi I wanted to ask for your thoughts and advice. My ex boyfriend has made contact with me on Facebook. We have split up for 4 years now. We don't have kids and have started to move on from him. I feel like I still love him but he was quite emotional abusive in the relationship. He would get jealous thinking I liked his friends and the police were called from neighbours as he used to fight with his friends and trash our house. He could be quite nasty the things he said. He said he has been for counselling and he's different now as he's grown up a lot. We had some good times as well and I feel like I still really love him. The abuse escalated and he tried to make me do a sexual act that I didn't want to do. I had told him clearly a few times that I didn't want to do it. He kept trying to push me forcefully. I managed to get away though and he said sorry. I still feel like I love him though. Do you think the counselling and the time passed will have helped him?
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