I am a twenty six year old woman. I live with my fiancé in a house that we own. I have managed from the age of eighteen to hold down a job, pay my bills and rent and generally be quite a successful adult.
Over the past few days, I have had a lot of changes in my life. I have got a new job with better career prospects and I am looking at buying my very first car.
However my parents, sibling and extended family have decided that I am a child. Apparently I should have consulted them on my choice of job (despite them declaring my old managerial role as a 'glorified shop assistant') because what I am now going to do is not good enough. (I am going to work with vulnerable children while training for a masters in child psychology). The fact that I am buying a car from autotrader and not paying my mum for her old car (because a newer model is cheaper and has less miles) makes me an ignorant disgrace.
I am so fed up with them. I have only just increased the level of contact with them again and now I feel pretty bloody stupid for being taken in. I have done so much work on myself to build up my self confidence and self esteem and now I am sitting here in tears because they have just spoiled everything again.
Am I being unreasonable in going no contact until they can see me as an adult or am I just acting like a spoilt child?
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DefinitelyOdd · 13/10/2016 19:10
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