Hi all,
Would love some advice!
I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years and one friend has never got on with him. They have only met a handful of times but when they have she has barely spoken to him. She acts as though he doesn't exist and when we meet up she won't ask about the relationship/anything to do with him.
I now feel like our friendship is forced. It's hard to leave such a large part of my life at home when we meet up and I feel resentful and as though I am being judged for choices I've made. I've asked my friend before what the problem is and she said that he doesn't make enough effort with her (which I found strange as she made no effort with him at all when they met).
I almost feel obliged to remain friends because 'we go way back' but truth be told I no longer enjoy our friendship, although she is always keen to meet up - so it makes no sense really.
Any thoughts would be appreciated :)
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user1476357270 · 13/10/2016 12:46
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