Last year my relationship broke down and we split. I'm glad to be out of that relationship but not glad to be back on the market and pushing 40!
My honest opinion is that people who are still single now at my age are damaged goods (including me). I can get dates and men are interested in me but they all have major issues with one thing or another.
I feel like out of everyone I know the happy ones with great relationships are the ones who got together and bonded quite young, teens to early 20's and stayed together. Everyone else seems to be going from one relationship to another or toughing it out with some deeply flawed partner.
When I was in my early 20's I was with a great guy who I loved and who was so kind and loving to me but I felt like I was missing out, that there might be someone better for me and that I felt it would be boring to just stay with him as he didn't "challenge" me to grow etc. What utter bullshit that was! I ran in to him a few years ago and the spark was stil there but he is married to someone else and she is the one benefiting from his love and support, it make me sick to think I had thrown that back in his face leaving him devastated at the time.
I feel like at this stage it is better just to give up, I had my chance and I blew it. I just wish I had someone nice I don't want to be out there anymore!
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silverbough77 · 12/10/2016 20:18
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