I have been with boyfriend for a few years, everything going well and we are planning to live together.
The weekend before last he went away with the boys to a festival, they left on Friday and he took his own car as he planned to come home on the Sunday whilst the others were staying til Monday. Anyway, he didn't come home on the Sunday and didn't answer his phone or reply to my text. Ever since I've had a bad feeling.
Sunday just gone, I was tidying up and I picked up what I thought was his old phone to put it away and it lit up when I touched it, it was his current phone, ashamedly I had a look (please don't flame me, this is out of character for me) I can see he met a girl at the event and has been texting her. The messages are quite general, he asked her did she get home safely and stuff. I felt so guilty I put it straight back without checking call log or other messaging apps they could be using.
I should probably add at this point every relationship I have ever had has ended with me being cheated on so maybe I am overthinking this but I was happy for him to go away and wasn't worried at the time, only now. Oh god just writing this makes me think I must be a terrible person as nobody stays with me.
I asked him if he met someone or if anything happened and he just said No I am with you.
What would you think? Please be kind. I feel awful.
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