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Should I go?

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Louisajohnson224 · 09/10/2016 13:25

So I have a date at 4pm
Drinks
I haven't been on a date in 8 years..8 years!
He seems like a nice guy,we get on well via text but I'm a nervous shaky mess.
Half of me wants to just not go and go to bed then get depressed at myself for not going.
Do I just cancel?

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user1471544305 · 09/10/2016 13:27

No go but look on it as making a new friend. Try not to big it up too much

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breakfastbap · 09/10/2016 13:27

Go! You never know it may be the start of something really good. If not then okay, at least you tried.

Good luck, hope it goes really well and you have a great time. Imagine how great you'll feel later if it does. ☺️

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TheNaze73 · 09/10/2016 13:30

You should, like user said, treat it like meeting a new friend.

Play the game, not the occasion & have a laugh Grin

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Bumplovin · 09/10/2016 13:31

Go!! I went on a blind date 4 years ago, I was petrified but he is now my husband and im pregnant!

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CaptinMuma · 09/10/2016 13:57

You should go. Enjoy yourself, nerves are normal.😊

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Louisajohnson224 · 09/10/2016 15:05

I'm just on my way now....so nervous
I'm sure after one drink I will be ok..I hope
You know when you worry you won't have anything to talk about..

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StartledByHisFurryShorts · 10/10/2016 08:09

How did your date go?

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Louisajohnson224 · 10/10/2016 08:25

It was so much fun.
We literally laughed all night.
Felt like I had known him ages ..I won't get too excited tho.
He text me after and this morning saying can be see me again and do I fancy going crazy golfing and dinner the weekend.
He didn't try anything on and hadn't sent any dodgy texts or topless selfies or rude pics ..I'm shocked but impressed

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LineyReborn · 10/10/2016 08:30

Go and play crazy golf. It's a brilliant eye-opener about whether someone's dementedly competitive or not.

Glad it was a good evening.

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breakfastbap · 10/10/2016 09:44

That's great news. Hope you have a great time at the weekend.

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CaptinMuma · 10/10/2016 10:51

Glad you had fun 😆

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