I am having difficulty resolving much to my surprise an attraction/crush on my dentist. The fellow who has been working on a minor dental problem for a few months now, I find that although I am old enough to be his mother, my feelings towards him are less than motherly.
I believe that in the beginning of our "relationship" he would be kind and funny as a means of relaxing me prior to starting work. This evolved into getting to know each other, and light flirtation. I also noticed that after a few sessions he no longer needed the support of an assistant present in the room with us.
Never was he forward with me in any way. But evidently, simple conversations with him made him blush on several occasions which forced him to stop working on my teeth until he collected himself. Unfortunately, I found that I really, really liked this guy and would like to see him outside of work.
Yes, I do know better intellectually speaking. I am much older and others who know him insist he is gay. That is something that I did not pick up on or maybe I just didn't want to pick up. Our final meeting was tense for both of us and at the time, I was glad that I wouldn't see him again. But now I want to - and not for his dental work either.
My question is would I be rejected badly if I tried to contact or run into him and ask him simply for a drink, lunch etc.. Like hims so much that I can't get him out of my head. Never did he mention, wife or girl/boyfriend but again, neither did I about myself. Just was very happy around this young man.
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Severe Attraction/Crush on a much much younger dental student
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Weetawu · 07/10/2016 23:44
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