So much to tell. DH has just told me that ds asked him a few days ago why mummy doesn't like him. He's 9. Dh and I are under a lot of pressure and have been for years now. Family illness, redundancies, money issues, sick dd, sick older relatives and deaths. I'm now unemployed and trying so extremely hard to find work. DH is stuck in a job he doesn't really like, 12 hour days but cant find another job either. DS is a standard 9 year old with hormones surging a phobia to homework and is loosing his ability to talk fast. dd is a manic attention demanding 3 year old.
I'm wiped out. I've had so many job rejections I've lost count. My Dr says i'm at risk of being ill and I need to loose weight fast. Our savings are at rock bottom. Father in law has terminal cancer and is needing a lot of support. My dm is suffocating me. She turns up at my house unannounced 4-5 times a week an my god can she talk!. My dh goes to work at 7am, gets in at 7pm and then goes to the gym. My head is spinning with it all!
I feel like I can't do anything right. I can't get a job, I can't provide for my family. I cant manage all the garden, housework, 2 kids (every drop off, pick-up, after school club, homework, parties etc), job hunting, all the food prep, shopping etc . DH helps with some of the ironing if its piling up (ffs). I'm not sleeping. I'm frustrated. Apparently i'm shouty. Honestly i'm not surprised and my patience has gone.
Tonight dh has made me feel i can't do anything right. My confidence is at rock bottom and then he tells me that I'm very snappy and tell the kids off alot. Thats because he doesn't!
I'm so fed-up. Ive got no-one I feel understands me. I dont want to take AD's as I dont feel i'm irrationally depressed. I have a very good reason to be stressed and fed up.
Dont know what I want from this.
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Rinkydinkypink · 26/09/2016 22:51
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