I have been seeing a man for around 5 months now, and we've been 'serious' for the last 2 months. All has been going really well, both very into each other sexually, great friendship prior to getting together.
I was with him last night, he was reading a whatsapp message from a femail friend, no big deal whatsoever, he showed it to me. I noticed at the top of his phone screen a notification from Badoo. I asked what it was, and he pulled down the notification and it said 'Nicole is online'.
I immediately put on my shoes, grabbed my keys and left saying 'that's really bad'.
On the drive home I got messages from him telling me I was being silly, it was nothing, he hasn't used the site in a year or so, he has no idea why a notification came through.
I phoned him and we had a heated discussion around trust etc. Him saying if I can't trust him, there's no relationship, etc etc.
I've no idea what to think - he vehemently denies using the site recently. I have no issue with anything prior to us getting serious, we all have pasts obviously, but I can't shake the feeling that he's possibly casting around for casual meet ups.
Can anyone please shed any light? Would a notification come through even if you haven't used the site for ages? Am I right to disbelieve his explanation? If he's genuine I can get past this and continue the relationship, but I don't want to let this go and end up looking like an idiot.
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Advice needed re Badoo dating site
SecretLocker · 20/09/2016 09:08
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