DH's cousin, who lives abroad, was whatsapping and messaging me on facebook with totally normal stuff in the beginning. I responded to his texts whilst keeping DH updated about the conversations. I even gave the DH's number to his cousin so he could check those things directly with DH.
One of the evenings, the cousin started texting me saying things like I take things too hard on myself, that I need to relax a bit and so on. Then he said I need more love. I was like whoa, where is this coming from? Then he said I got a raw deal in life and that I deserve more love, from a "man". I flared up at this point and told him he needs to check his limits and immediately blocked him on whatsapp. I told DH about this (not every bit but the gist of it) but there was no reaction from him that I was expecting to see. (A bit of background is that DH has been jobless for a while, I am the breadwinner of the family and his family is well aware of this. Our relationship hasn't been going very well for sometime now).
Today on facebook, his cousin changes his profile picture and I see DH "like" his picture. I find this very unpalatable. I don't understand the psychology behind this. I still haven't asked him about this as I don't think there is any point but does he not care about what his cousin did or he thinks I am lying or he simply has no feelings left for me? I can't get my head around this.
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DH "like"s his cousin's pic on facebook knowing he was hitting on me
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MrsPeterParker · 12/09/2016 23:03
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