A few months ago, I parted company with my parents, due to years long selfishness and lack of emotional support for any of their daughters. My sisters left the family fold years ago, so I am the last to leave.
My in laws and my parents live in the same village, so they stop and talk to each other in passing once in a while.
I accepted this would happen, so I told my in laws I'm fine with that as long as they don't tell me that they've seen each other and what was said.
Only they haven't listened. So every meal time spent at my in laws always start with: "I saw your Mum and Dad the other day".
I have to re-iterate to them not to tell me they've seen them, or spoke.
Every. Single. Time.
It's like I can't get away from my parents 100% because of their reminders. I feel I'm not being taken seriously. All they ever say is: but your parents are so nice to us. Obviously the reply is, they' re nice to everybody just not their own family.
I appreciate it's not their fault I've fallen out with my parents, which is why I'm ok with them talking, but I'm getting to the point where I'm going to fall out with them too. Is is me being sensitive, or them being insensitive?
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ThursFriHappy · 12/09/2016 12:45
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