I can't post this on the sex area as have namechanged to post it! This is about sex though so fair warning.
Fairly new BF. wonderful in every other respect, he is caring, kind and generous. Treats me exceptionally well. Clearly fancies me like mad BUT I have noticed he never touches me intimately during sex. He has done once but nothing otherwise. It is starting to bother me. Sex is wonderful otherwise, we are at it for hours and he can come multiple times. I get the impression he isn't particularly experienced in bed but I don't know as he won't discuss previous experiences. He is very sensitive himself and half the time I'm not sure if he actually likes what I do to him or not!
Last night I was at his. We couldn't have sex due to period but obviously there is lots more ways to have fun! We were busy for TWO hours and he didn't touch me below once. I was desperate and in the end did it myself. I did ask him and he was of course fine with it but it is leaving me a bit unsettled that he wouldn't play with me himself.
I know I need to talk to him but he would be horrified if he thought I wasn't enjoying myself in bed. He says it has never been as good as this for him before. I am ashamed to say I have faked orgasms while having sex though. I feel awful. Opinions on why he doesn't want to touch me?!
I can't post this in sex as have namechanged.
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BF won't touch me intimately during sex. **TMI WARNING**
slightlypreoccupied · 11/09/2016 14:02
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